Cruising for sex or getting trade as its called in some areas is unfortunatley very common in the LGBT Community, espically with gay men. 
However Gay Men are not the only ones tricking online. Straight men are doing it too... YES GIRL... Those uptight preppy hot straight men are looking for trade too.. Some of them (a large group of them) will even switch sides to get his rocks off. Females are doing it too but not too much talked about or notice because they do it discreetly. 

But the what I want to talk about is Gay men cruising for sex. Its a definite part of our culture and we cant deny it.. And hunnies Im not ashamed to say that I too use to cruise for sex.. I am not an angel... And I know most of you arent either because I have seen you at the Book store OK!!!

Well Cruising for sex is done for many reasons: 1. To Get off! 2. The thrill of the hunt! 3. The mystery. Cruising for sex is done in various places. Its done at Parks, Online, Bath houses, Bars, River Fronts, etc. Unfortunately and it is changing some. This is how our Youth have their first gay experience, not realizing, the dangers that are involved in so many ways. 

They have no other way to find and seek out the gay community fearing that they will be found out by friends and family. Trust me this has changed and like its not common in every town or city there are places for Youths to go to find out about themselves so they are not subjected to the situation of being exploited by adults. Every walk of life have their predators.. Its not just in the Gay community but unfortunately there are the sick ones that the younger generation needs to be aware of. 

When I was 17 and started to cruise for sex,. i was looking for friendship, love, and companionship... (BULL SHIT) Ok not in that order, but i was looking for those things... Im a typical male looking for that boom boom... 

As I got older I started to put the more serious things in front of my priorities, but during this time of me crusing I was robbed, tried to kick my ass, and drugged. So be very careful if you decide to partake in this activity. I am very thankful that I did not contract HIV. Unfortunately I have friends who have and some that have died. 

This kind of behavier is out there.. we cant deny it. We need to stop pretending and start educating! 

I am not saying I approve or dissapprove. Remember Sheila dosent judge. Thats not my job. What i am saying is wrap your wanker! EVERY TIME. Be aware of your surroundings, save those instant messages, let a friend know where your going... Give a time that you will call... and if you dont.. then they know what to do. 

Also be careful and make sure there are not police around. Heaven forbid two consenting adults are charged with a sex crime for getting their tally wacker sucked in a car or in the trees. 

Remember there are thousands of people that dont even know their HIV status. Also there are even that large amount that will lie about it... Those of you that are positive and having unprotected sex with your partner knowing SHAME ON YOU ! You Make SHEILA PUKE!